TWO MEN & A LADY

This is Our Life ~ Our Photo Book ~ Our Journal that will never sit on a shelf, be placed in a chest or find its spot in the attic but instead put on display for all of you so you can share in our joy and sorrows that come complete with life. Learn from our mistakes (THERE ARE MANY) or give advice when needed. Welcome!
Clint ~Teri & Dax
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Thursday, March 20, 2008

Enjoying the Spectacle!

Dax likes to move move move. This week I can literally feel him move off and on all day long. Last week I had to be in a certain position. I found it by happenstance. I was putting a big pillow under my knees (that’s to keep me from sleeping on my back). When I reached up to get something I noticed a big thump thump. The closer I pull my knees to my chest, the more he moves and the easier I can feel him.

Picture me sitting on the bed in a delivery position (the one you see in the movies anyway) holding my knees up to my chest with my feet dangling in the air talking to my stomach. Clint walked into the room and said WHAT are you doing???? I said "he moves when I do this – like crazy" Clint said "stop it – he probably doesn't’t like it!" I can’t help but to try it every now and then anyways. Sometimes it feels like my stomach being taken on a roller coaster ride. Even though I love roller coasters, I hate the Free Fall and other rides like that because it does nothing but take your stomach. But when Dax does it, I find myself sitting there wanting him to do it again. ;)

But, now I wait until Clint has gone to work so he dozen’t have a hissy. But we both talk to the belly no matter how ridiculous it may look or sound, because Dax moves more if you talk to him. The bad thing is, is that it’s in the same tone that we talk to the cats, so when I’m in there doing that – they come a running. This morning, !TORNADO! came to see me, and when he saw me poking gently on my belly in certain places (which will also get a reaction from Dax) !TORNADO! started making biscuits too, but on the bed (you know, when they start gently stepping repetitively like they are kneading dough – well, we call that making biscuits). For a minute he reached out his paw like he was going to make biscuits on my belly (like they normally love to do) but then after thinking over the matter, he pulled his paw back and continued making biscuits on the bed. Oh yes, animals do sense when you are pregnant. It may be the way everyone is careful around you as well as yourself or they just have that instinct, but they definitely know. !TORNADO! noticed sooner (about 4wks of me being pregnant) – it took Gracie kitty a LOT longer (about 16 wks).

Since they’ve noticed, they follow me everywhere I go, sleep by me or at my feet, wake me up in the middle of the night by putting their cold nose on my face and even bypass jumping or stepping on my stomach when coming to be pet. Sometimes I get hot in the middle of the night and will get up and walk outside – these cats will get up with me, follow me, watch me out the window while I’m outside, and then follow me back to bed. It’s absolutely crazy. These cats never did this to me before. They always were Clint’s babies and very rarely bothered me – only when he wasn’t there occasionally. I never liked clingy cats, but now it’s just so crazy and sweet that it really doesn’t bother me. Those two cats are like Clint who?

We finally made it to BabiesRus to register, and Clint walked around the store the entire time like a big kid playing with the scanner. He was like "I just scanned your foot, now I scanned your hiny and now I’m scanning Dax. HAHA! I did most of it online, as I knew it would be complete torture for me to get the smaller detailed stuff.

When it came to the bedding stuff I figured Clint could care less – NOPE! He was very particular. He made sure that even though Dax is going to be a newborn and could care less what his surroundings looked like – every thing had to be very much a "man’s man kind of room for baby" lol. Anything that had yellow, stars or looked remotely too cute, Clint said No way!

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

We Have Movement!

Last week, the day after the U/S I got another surprise – I felt Dax move for the 1st time. It felt like he was running his fingers across the other side of my stomach. I could barely feel it. But then yesterday I felt him big time! It’s like he was trying to stick a fist/foot right through my stomach. Like my stomach had a huge heart beat! LOL!

Is that normal?

I didn’t think you started feeling those kinds of movements until you were further along.

When I felt him for the first time, I thought Clint would be as excited as me, but he didn’t seem to be so I asked him "Are you not excited about it? I finally felt him move!!" He said. "I’m jealous; I want to feel him move too!" I told him he will soon enough. For now he (Clint) is having fun talking to my belly. He’ll say "Hello…." "Hello…anybody in there?" Then he’ll say – he’s not talking back… ;)" Ha-ha. I’m married to such a nut case.

Wednesday, March 5, 2008

Everybody hold your breath!


From Dax



From Dax



From Dax


Clint was speechless, I started to cry and Mom was excitedly asking questions. Being overjoyed when we found out it was a boy is an understatement!!!!

I was so happy yesterday, that it was like finding out I was pregnant all over again and the same feeling when Clint surprised me early with a ring and proposed. Ha – yes we were together 6 years at that point and you can hardly call that early, but it was right when his father was at the sickest so I expected it to be the last thing on his mind at the time. Each and every time I end up so excited I jump in his lap and just give him a big hug – ha- ha. Although yesterday I couldn't' do that since I had goo all over me. ;) I was so happy to hear that the baby looked "great – perfect – and a very good size" I was so worried because I hadn't gained a pound and I was so afraid the baby would be too small or underdeveloped. And when we saw it was a boy – it was too much! I actually teared up - AWE! Clint was so happy he was speechless – he was off the rest of the day and Lord only knows how many cartwheels he turned when he got home. Mom must have called everybody in her cell phone contacts before we even got out of the U/S room.

Not only is Clint the last chance to carry on the Powell name in his family, but I also found out why he wanted a boy so bad. He said, "I was really starting to worry… I know nothing about little girls" – Awe!! I couldn't help but laugh and said you really don't know anything about raising little boys either, this is your first. I think he's terrified of worrying non-stop with a girl (as he noticed my Dad still does ;) But he will now have his fishing buddy!!

NAME: This was so easy for us – the girl's name too. Since I didn't get a girl this time, I'll use it if I ever do have one. Since we saw the...um..."turtle," (so the u/s tech called it) it's Spinner "Dax" Powell. ;)

(Jac Parker said "I like it, but with a name like that you know he's destined to be a wild child). Those of you that knew Clint's wonderful late father know where "Spinner" comes from. Clint really liked the name Dax and when he found out what it meant, he was determined. It means "one who loves the water." Really funny when we told Dr. Goolsby that, because we had just got through asking him if it were okay for me to be in a bass boat when I'm further along. Because of the name meaning and all the questions, he picked up that Clint was a big fisher! He said – "Spinner Dax" I like it, it's a good strong name….and if the next one is a boy again and you get stuck on what to call him, you can just call him "Crank Bait." ; )

So it looks like we will have our little man and both of us couldn't be happier about it. We must have watched that video of the U/S six times last night. And when he would move (which was a lot - like he was already saying let me out of here I ready to go) it was just too too precious! I want to hold him now already.

Funny that the whole time I didn't have a clue what I was having and leaned more towards a girl. The last two days when Clint pressed me for a final say, I just knew it was a boy. Guess that intuition kicked in... Even if it were very last minute. So maybe there's some hope for me yet.




Who thought Boy or Girl: This was b/f the ultrasound....
FOR THE RECORD...
UPDATE on the last UPDATE: Big day is tomorrow and I'm going to officially say that I have changed my mind and am going with a boy - funny thing is that Clint has changed his mind as well... he now thinks girl.

Dan says it's going to be a Tero number 2 and Jac says a boy. Mrs soon to be Cheeky thinks it's a girl too due to the payback. I seem to be hearing that a lot. Why on earth do all these people think I've got a lot of payback coming??? LOL!! hmmm... I wonder... ha-ha.

Oh and if any of y'all know Kenleigh - go check out her pictures if you haven't already - she just had a gorgeous little girl.

For Lizzie, it won't be long - I can't wait to see pictures of her - she's going to be as beautiful as Kenzie, I know it!!
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Update from today: One more vote for a girl - from Angela. :)

That makes the count 50/50 at this point.
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Original Blog:

I had another dream last week, or the week before and this one was bizarre only this time my baby was a boy, but it was the second baby – not the first. I had a dream that I was 7 mos pregnant with a little girl, but then I became pregnant while I was already pregnant with a little boy. So, they were going to cut my uterus in half when the girl got big enough so the boy could have a little longer (crazy stuff!). While I was getting ready for the big ultrasound to verify it was a boy which for some reason I already knew - strange, I got in a big fight with one of the nurses and they told me I couldn't have it the ultrasound, because of my attitude and that's about the time I woke up.

So my mind is spinning with anticipation, I always wanted my first to be a surprise, but because Clint's got to know and all these crazy dreams and the wives tales I'm dying to know right now who guessed right and who guessed wrong.

This is the tally of who thinks it's what.

Clint's mother (she's got a very freaky talent for seeing things before they happen) thinks it's a girl. She's said that from day one and she's positive. However, this could all be because she has three grandkids already and they are all boys from Clint's Half-sister Diane.

Clint thinks it's a boy and refers to this little munchkin at all times as he.

I however can make myself refer to little one as he. She always comes out of my mouth. I'm just having a hard time thinking it's a boy (despite the one week that I thought it might be) I've just got girl on the mind and it's been very hard to think otherwise before and even after the dreams of the boy. I'll be shocked if it's a boy.

Lizzie- Thinks it's a boy. This mama's on her second so she's far more intuitive than myself I can tell you that now. ;)

Dani – I believe def thinks it's a girl (I heard tell she has a strange knack for guessing right).

So that makes 3 guesses for a girl. 2 for a boy.

My Mom could be the tie breaker, but she says she's wavering… haha. She was thinking girl at first but is starting to wonder if it's a boy. Like Mother like daughter…

Anybody want to be the tiebreaker???